1.5 Finding a deeper layer of receiving

In order to fully receive, you need to stop giving for a while 

When you do this, the depths of true receiving become crystal clear—as a hidden world of pleasure and connection is revealed.

Giving is: Your Action or Their Action: It’s for them (what another person wants/desires).

It’s about what you are willing to do or have done to you within your limits.

You give when you go into action for them, doing something which fulfils the other person’s desires. 

You also give when others do something to you (that they want to do), because you give access to yourself/your body.

When asking for permission and making agreements:

Two things to remember when you’re willing to ‘something’ for somebody;

The action is for them, so:

• you put your desire second

• you respect your limits

Receiving is: Your Action or Their Action: It’s for you (what you want/desire).

It’s about what you want/what your desire is.

You receive when you go into action for yourself, fulfilling your own desires or someone else goes into action for you.

Two things to remember when you want something from somebody;

The action is for you, so:

• you put your desire first

• you respect the giver’s limits